Girl Brain vs Long Distance Relationship
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‘re shaking your head already. Yeah, I know. Doesn’t work, right? Well just you wait until you hear the rest of it. You will think I am completely crazy and…heck I probably am. (Wait, is this a padded room? Cool!!)
If you read yesterday’s post you will know about the adult dating site. If you didn’t read it, shame on you! No cliff notes here, go back and read it! I did like I promised myself and did not friend ANYONE on that site. I let them come to me. In month 1, I saw a profile that literally made me drool. Well, drool is an understatement. I was wet all over! HA! This guy was super sexy, lived in another state, and seemed like a sweetheart. I stood by my rule and just made myself stop looking. It took great restraint! Month 2 Mr. Super Sexy friend requested me and I said heck yeah! There were a couple sweet comments from him, but I was trying to be cautious. I didn’t want to seem over-anxious and besides…he is in a different state. Month 3 he sent me a private message. I could have died happy and yes, I was giddy as a school girl. I sent him a message and gave him my messenger address. Now generally I wouldn’t give out such information so quickly, but he was…different.
That night when he got the message, he signed on to messenger and we chatted for about 2 hours before he had to go out with his friends. He gave me his number, told me I could call or text anytime, and I texted him so he had my number. He spent the rest of the evening texting me. There were a lot of “get to know each other” messages and a lot of, shall I say, nasty messages. I was completely taken by his sweetness, his charm, and his ability to communicate on my level sexually. I am not a sexual expert and I haven’t had a bunch of partners, but I know what I want and I am not afraid to communicate. This usually intimidates guys. Not Mr. Super Sexy, he was the perfect fuel for my fire and I was amazed. This first messaging began August 10.
The following week he was texting me at work and then called. I generally can’t answer the phone but I did and it took him by surprise. I guess he was going to be bad and leave me a naughty message but I caught him. I am a major sucker for guys with accents and I could tell he was trying to hide one. Oh my!!! Mr. Super Sexy just won me over again! He has a sweet southern drawl and the fact that he is such a gentleman must have come from his upbringing. I was enamoured almost instantly. Are you ready to commit me yet??? Wait…there’s more.
It didn’t take long but we have confessed our absolute love and adoration for each other. We talk about our future. We talk about all the things we’re going to do when we are finally together. We have AMAZING phone sex. And ready? (Shielding myself) I have not met him personally. Sigh. I KNOW I KNOW!! Give me a break!! We have talked so much. I never offer info to him before asking him a question. For example, I don’t say, “I like sushi, do you like sushi?” NO. I ask him, “Do you like sushi?” and when he says no, I tell him I will teach him. HA! Anyway, I honestly believe everything he has told me is the truth. In my head, no one compares to him or what we can be. I was never LOOKING for a relationship and I certainly wasn’t looking for this.
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i don’t get this part about relationships either – “Well, days like today when I haven’t heard from him.”
about the risk, that’s the fun part.
I know. Wish I could change that part in my head. But, why no texts Buddy!! LOL. Then I text him this morning and he’s right there like nothing. Crazy. I don’t know. Wonder how long it would go if i didn’t text him this morning. BUT, I am not playing that game.
people love differently i think
but honesty is also important i think
i use i think, cause love is one of those things you can’t explain… people love differently
I love that. Thank you, I will remember…”People Love Differently.” And I really do believe he is being honest with me.
All I can add is that I can totally relate to how I think you are feeling. If I was in the same boat that you find yourself in, I have a brain that would immediately be questioning everything about myself if that other person did not make contact with me within a short period of time. I would have probably driven you crazy by deluging you with texts and calls at all hours of the day or night. Maybe the guy wants to call you and text you ALL THE TIME…but is afraid he might spook you away if he does so. I dunno…..us men are impossible to read. Good luck though. I hope you two finally get to meet and that this all has a great outcome
We are both attention whores, so he knows he can contact me anytime and says he loves getting my messages anytime I send them. I think this problem I have stems from the old remains of bad relationships. I can get through this. Besides…today he is back to normal. So strange, so strange.
You’ll have an aneurysm trying to figure us guys out….. good luck though.
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